McClaire's Motherhood

the thoughts & experiences of a first time mum

  • 13th March
    2013
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I decided to have a go at making my own muesli today. 
I say ‘making’ more accurately I ‘assembled’ it:
Porridge oats (200g); dried fruit(150g); nuts (50-100g) and mixed together.
Keep in airtight tub for few weeks.

I don’t like milk so plan to soak in a little orange/apple juice for 10mins or so before eating & I might put a little honey over if I think it needs it & some yoghurt.

I decided to have a go at making my own muesli today.
I say ‘making’ more accurately I ‘assembled’ it:
Porridge oats (200g); dried fruit(150g); nuts (50-100g) and mixed together.
Keep in airtight tub for few weeks.

I don’t like milk so plan to soak in a little orange/apple juice for 10mins or so before eating & I might put a little honey over if I think it needs it & some yoghurt.

  • 13th March
    2013
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Ok, so I haven’t posted for hmmm …ages, but thought I’d share a few recipes /foods I’ve been enjoying lately. 
I go through phases of really enjoying cooking & making lots of healthy things in batches & I’m in one of those phases now. 
As a bit of background to me & food - I am a home cook & love experimenting with new recipes /flavours & adapting old recipes. As to whether I’m a ‘good cook’: well I enjoy it & it’s generally well received! ( apart from the gnocchi incident - I might share that another time!) 

So here is my lunch today - quick salad with puy lentils, leaves, sweetcorn, tomatoes, celery, spring onions. Dressing with whole grain mustard, white wine vinegar & olive oil. Served with homemade wholemeal drop scone (thank you Hugh fearnley whittingstall!). I did put a little chicken breast over it as an after thought too.

This was great to use up leftovers as had can puy lentils and sweetcorn opened already.

Ok, so I haven’t posted for hmmm …ages, but thought I’d share a few recipes /foods I’ve been enjoying lately.
I go through phases of really enjoying cooking & making lots of healthy things in batches & I’m in one of those phases now.
As a bit of background to me & food - I am a home cook & love experimenting with new recipes /flavours & adapting old recipes. As to whether I’m a ‘good cook’: well I enjoy it & it’s generally well received! ( apart from the gnocchi incident - I might share that another time!)

So here is my lunch today - quick salad with puy lentils, leaves, sweetcorn, tomatoes, celery, spring onions. Dressing with whole grain mustard, white wine vinegar & olive oil. Served with homemade wholemeal drop scone (thank you Hugh fearnley whittingstall!). I did put a little chicken breast over it as an after thought too.

This was great to use up leftovers as had can puy lentils and sweetcorn opened already.

  • 21st May
    2011
  • 21

Hospital Bag - what I actually used

For Baby

  • Newborn nappies
  • Babygrows - 3-4
  • Vest (short sleeve) - 3-4
  • Hat
  • Socks
  • Coming home outfit
  • Jacket
  • Blanket
  • Towel
  • Car seat
  • Cotton wool 
  • Muslins
  • Bibs

For Hubby

  • Deodorant
  • T- shirt

Food

  • Lucozade sport
  • Bottle of frozen water
  • Cereal bars
  • Dried fruit

Toiletries

  • Hair brush
  • Hair bobbles/clips/hair band
  • Deodorant
  • Vaseline
  • Face wipes
  • Maternity sanitary towels 
  • Breast pads
  • Magicool spray
  • Lip balm
  • Moisturiser
  • Toothbrush & toothpaste
  • Shower gel 
  • Shampoo & conditioner

Clothing:-

  • Flip flops
  • 2 Dark coloured towels 
  • Sarong 
  • Knickers 
  • Socks
  • Nightwear 
  • Coming home outfit
  • Maternity bras (or if not breastfeeding some comfortable non-underwired ones)
  • Big old T-shirt for labour

General:-

  • Money 
  • Mobile phone
  • Tissues
  • Book
  • Maternity notes & birth plan
  • Camera

Remember - your partner/family can go home and bring you fresh clothes etc or pick things up that you’ve forgotton so don’t fret too much about this! You won’t use half the things you take!

I don’t know what I was thinking, packing perfume & make up!! That was the last thing on my mind, all you need is things which will make you comfortable. I also packed clothes to wear during the day on the ward but ended up spending all day in my pyjamas.

  • 21st May
    2011
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Hospital bag - what I packed

Clothing:-

  • Flip flops - for padding around ward
  • 2 Dark coloured towels (one for first shower post birth)
  • Sarong - for cover ups during labour
  • Underwear
  • Socks - 3 pairs
  • Nightwear - take at least a couple
  • Coming home outfit
  • Maternity bras (or if not breastfeeding some comfortable non-underwired ones)
  • Big old T-shirt for labour
  • Trousers
  • T Shirts/Tops
  • Cardigan

General:-

  • Pack of playing cards
  • Pen & paper
  • Money (car parking/food etc (leave your purse at home so you don’t worry about where to leave it safe but take some cash separately)).
  • Mobile phone ( I had the app Contraction (Ctx) Timer on my Iphone which worked really well)
  • Tissues
  • Maternity notes & birth plan
  • Iphone docking station (for music in labour)
  • Book

Toiletries

  • Facial spritz
  • Magicool spray
  • Lip balm
  • Moisturiser
  • Toothbrush & toothpaste
  • Shower gel (I chose a ‘foamburst’ type which lathered really easily, great when you are exhausted, trust me, makes life much easier in your post birth shower!)
  • Shampoo & conditioner
  • Bachs rescue remedy
  • Maternity sanitary towels (the thicker & longer the better!)
  • Breast pads
  • Make Up
  • Hair brush
  • Hair bobbles/clips/hair band
  • Deodorant
  • Vaseline
  • Face wipes
  • Perfume
  • Sanitising hand gel
  • Lavender oil

Food

  • Lucozade sport - 2 bottles
  • Bottle of frozen water
  • Cereal bars
  • Dried fruit

For Hubby

  • Deodorant
  • T- shirt

For Baby

  • Newborn nappies
  • Wipes
  • Nappy sacks
  • Babygrows
  • Vest (short sleeve)
  • Hats
  • Scratchmitts
  • Socks
  • Coming home outfit
  • Jacket
  • Blanket
  • Towel
  • Car seat
  • Sudocrem
  • Muslins
  • 19th May
    2011
  • 19

Must Haves!

I know, there are loads of these ‘must have’ lists out there but I felt I’d like to share my top 10 products with you.

They are:

  1. Silver Cross Surf - the best travel system.
  2. Silver Cross Halo rocker - JD still has all his daytime naps in his & portable too.
  3. Bibs - pre-baby I thought you only needed bibs when teething (dribbles) and weaning - turns out I was wrong & promptly sent mother-in-law out to get some within the first 24hours!
  4. Muslins - mop up everything, great for a cover up when breast feeding too.
  5. Mamas & Papas classic travel cot 
  6. BabaSling - ok so I couldn’t use it very well but my better half could and it sent JD off to sleep on countless occasions.
  7. Annabel Karmel baby & toddler meal planner - lots of lovely recipes.
  8. Gina Ford Contented Little Baby Book - see previous post.
  9. Bumbo - great for early weaning when too small for high chair.
  10. Sleeping Bags - brilliant for little wrigglers.
  11. Ikea play mat - great value, easy to transport and perfect when they are really little - machine washable too!

(Ok, so that’s 11 but the play mat had to go on!!)

If there are any of these products that you’d like a full review of then let me know & I’ll do my best!

  • 18th May
    2011
  • 18

Routine or not routine, that is the question!

If there is one topic which always prompts a debate it is whether to put your baby in a routine or not. We had discussed this before JD was born and decided that having a routine could work for us and so we got Gina Ford’s Contented Little Baby Book. This book seemed to make a lot of sense to us and as first time parents with no idea what to do it really gave us a good template.

All the health professionals we spoke to (midwives & health visitors) seemed horrified at the word ‘routine’. Granted, it is not for everyone and there is the risk that there will be some people who will be determined to put their child into a routine to the detriment of that child’s wellbeing e.g not feeding baby until it’s “time to feed” and leaving child to scream. That is not the way to go about it! But I do believe that encouraging a child into a routine from the start makes life a lot easier later on.

Often people believe that following a routine confines you to the house but we have always taken JD out and about with us and enjoyed going to various baby groups. We used Gina Ford’s routines as a guide for when we would offer breastfeeds and when to structure his naps. Obviously if he was hungry outside of those times, he would have a feed. Now he has a good bedtime routine and goes to sleep at 7 pm which leaves hubby and I some time to ourselves in the evening.

Many people comment on how content JD seems and I am sure he feels secure knowing when to expect his sleeps and feeds. This is not to say that you can’t have a happy baby without a routine! But if you are the sort of person who likes some sort of structure then give it a try!

  • 18th May
    2011
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Intro & the early days

Ok, I’m new to blogging so here goes!!

Here is a little background to what’s been going on in the past 8 months: I became a mum for the first time in September 2010 to a gorgeous little boy, JD. My pregnancy had been great and both myself and hubby were really looking forward to becoming parents. Labour was a great experience, and I cannot express enough thanks to my hubby and the midwife who delivered our boy for all the support they gave. From my waters breaking at approx 6pm on a Friday evening to delivering my boy at 04.56am the next day, it all happened fairly quickly and I was only in active labour for approx 3 hours. I got through it with entonox and using the birthing pool. I can strongly recommend using water during your labour as it really eased the pain and allowed me to get into comfortable positions.

Getting home: The first few weeks really were a learning curve, all the sleepless nights do take their toll on you. We didn’t know what to expect with a new baby - How much sleep does he need? How often to feed, is he getting enough at each feed? How do you structure naps? I wanted to breastfeed but didn’t have a clue whether he was latching on properly or taking enough milk. We had a tough few days before my milk supply came in fully and he was trying to feed but couldn’t latch on properly. It could have been so easy to give up at that point and switch to formula but we had great support from the midwives who helped me establish breastfeeding and I will always be thankful to them for this. It is the best decision I have made and has created a strong bond. I can’t believe how incredibly lucky we are.

So, that’s just the start of this journey. Follow the blog for the latest developments including weaning, starting nursery and more! I’ll also be including some product reviews!

  • 18th May
    2011
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